Q: I have a dilemma, my man give me all the attention and love a woman can ask for but dude broke as Fxck! I mean we can't afford to do nothing but candle light a ramen noodles. So do I stick with love over living my life?
A: Live your life baby, if a man hasn't gotten his self together by now he's never going to. Money isn't everything but it takes two and you can not be the bread winner for the two of you throughout your entire relationship. If you choose to stick around it will not only become stressful but very annoying because you'll have to take the bill for every occasion or event. Then before you know it you'll be buying him everything he needs, you can not be a "man " girlfriend, counselor, therapist, mother, friend and atm all in one. Live life and love will come . If you leave and he comes back with a decent job and still has love for you like he did then great but if not move on! It's hard in this economy now, love won't pay the bills! -Eri